Caring for the Caregiver
Practical Advice and Tools to Support Caregivers of Persons with Dementia
This website is designed for you, the caregiver of a person with dementia. It provides some practical advice and tools to help you manage the more stressful or challenging parts of being a caregiver. It was developed using current evidence and input from experts on dementia and dementia care.
This site does not focus on other aspects of dementia. However, there are links to other websites provided.
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Caring for a person living with dementia
Providing care to a person with dementia can be a 24-hour a day job. If at times you feel stressed or become overwhelmed, you are not alone.
When should I think about taking a break?
Often as the dementia progresses, the person becomes more dependent on their primary or main caregiver, and can be reluctant to accept care from others or be apart from their primary caregiver.
Consider that this may happen and try to introduce alternate care providers prior to actually needing them. This will allow the alternate care provider time to develop a relationship with the person with dementia. This can decrease resistance, suspicion and paranoia.
It is often hard to ask for help, and when you really need it the help may not be available. Therefore when someone offers to help, even if you are not yet requiring help, try to think of a way they can help (e.g. make a meal that can be frozen, pick up groceries or dry cleaning). This accomplishes 2 things: 1) you get comfortable asking for and accepting help; 2) the person offering help stays connected and is more likely to be available when you really need their help.
Ways to Respond with Stressful Parts of Caring for a Person With Dementia
How can I get more sleep and still provide care?
If the person you are caring for does not sleep well at night consider trying the following:
If you are having trouble sleeping:
If you are not asleep within 20 minutes of going to bed, get up from the bed and try a relaxing activity such as reading or meditation. Do not watch TV or use your computer or tablet, as these can prevent you from feeling tired.
What can I do if they won’t eat?
Some specific things to try:
How can I respond with their episodes of agitation or aggression?
Changes in the brain that occur with dementia can cause agitation and aggression. It can be hard to manage these behaviours.
Try the EASY approach:
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